How to convince or persuade wife to Nudism???

Dear All,
We are an Indian couple in mid & early thirties. I have been a nudist since more than 10 years. Recently got married & just has a wonderful kid few days back. How I can persuade my wife in to nudism?? Though she was nude with me in the house for almost 2 days she left it afterwards. Suggest something that will persuade her in to nudism....!!!
Thanks a lot
Sachin

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Dear All,We are an Indian couple in mid & early thirties. I have been a nudist since more than 10 years. Recently got married & just has a wonderful kid few days back. How I can persuade my wife in to nudism?? Though she was nude with me in the house for almost 2 days she left it afterwards. Suggest something that will persuade her in to nudism....!!!Thanks a lotSachinTell her if she doesn't join you in nudism, you are going to kill yourself and then she is next. THAT should persuade her, real good.

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RE: How to convince or persuade wife to Nudism???

Dear All,We are an Indian couple in mid & early thirties. I have been a nudist since more than 10 years. Recently got married & just has a wonderful kid few days back. How I can persuade my wife in to nudism?? Though she was nude with me in the house for almost 2 days she left it afterwards. Suggest something that will persuade her in to nudism....!!!Thanks a lotSachinTell her if she doesn't join you in nudism, you are going to kill yourself and then she is next. THAT should persuade her, real good.
I meant to add to the end of that, LOL. Not to be taken seriously.

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Why do you want to convince her ? just let her know that you are nudist. if some point of time she likes this lifestyle, she would towards. respect her space. I understand what it feels like to have non nudist wife. But her space is more important.

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Since you knew you were a nudist since age 10, why didn't you seek a nudist partner? Perhaps, being Indian, you had an arranged marriage. You will never convince her so don't even try. If she decides to adopt nudism, she'll do it on her own terms, not your.

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I won't be as glib or defeatist as the other posters.
How to convince her? TALK to her. Tell her you enjoy being nude. Why you enjoy it. Why you think being nude is a good thing. Talk, talk, talk. Make it clear that not wearing clothes is important to you and part of who you are.
Also, if you visit nudist blogs or other sites with articles about nudism share the articles with her. There are many sites with articles that explain nudism and also explain it from a woman's perspective. With a child in the family now, there are many articles on the benefits of family nudity - that it's a good thing for children to see their parents naked.
Next, model nudism. Sleep naked. When you wake up don't put on clothes for as long as you can get away with - this could be just going to the bathroom & back, or could be making breakfast (for her) and not getting dressed until you leave the house.
But in all of this, make it clear that SHE is important to you and that your relationship with her is more important than you running around naked. But also be clear that this being naked thing is not a passing fancy with you, that it is important too.
My own wife was not a nudist when we married, but we did talk about it a bit before we got married. She clearly did not realize how important it is to me. Now, she accepts that I like to be nude and sometimes she joins me. But she is by no means as interested in it as I am - she thinks it's giving way too much thought to something as simple as not wearing clothes. So while nudism is by no means a hobby or interest of hers, she accommodates my interest in it, and I am respectful of her not being into it - I don't walk around the house naked most of the time.

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Dear All,We are an Indian couple in mid & early thirties. I have been a nudist since more than 10 years. Recently got married & just has a wonderful kid few days back. How I can persuade my wife in to nudism?? Though she was nude with me in the house for almost 2 days she left it afterwards. Suggest something that will persuade her in to nudism....!!!Thanks a lotSachinCompliment her on how good she looks any time she is naked, like when she is nude for bathing. I got my Asian wife into nudism by getting her to loose the costume while swimming on a deserted beach. And just let her enjoy the feeling without pressure.
Nude massages are good too, just use any subtle means available to extend her nude time. And never force her into any situation that will cause her to rebel against her being nude. Patience is the key.

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Why do you want to convince her ? just let her know that you are nudist. if some point of time she likes this lifestyle, she would towards. respect her space. I understand what it feels like to have non nudist wife. But her space is more important.I'm with you on this one. My wife is way too self conscious to be nude around others, and she doesn't even like to be nude at home. Of course, she'll relax with me nude when we're home alone which is not often enough. She was also go nude with me on one of her family's farms, if we were the only ones around. I think that being outside and naked there would help her to enjoy the comfort of it. We've been married 25 years, and I don't know what would make her be naked around others like at a beach or club.
When we were young, and I was in the military and stationed in Europe, we went to topless beaches with our new and first baby. Bare chested women and men from all over Europe were running around topless, and that was before the popularity of g-string bikinis; I suppose. She was nursing our baby, and she would actually cover up to do so. I told her it looked silly, because even the saggy old women were topless. She was drawing attention to herself not hiding herself.

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The poor body image issue is the problem with my wife as well.
While everything I've seen and read (and experienced to some
degree - I'm still more of a non-social nudist at the moment) says
that adding nudism to her life will help my wife to understand that
being comfortable with your own body doesn't mean looking like a
model, it's a barrier in and of itself.
We're hoping to take a trip to Germany in the next couple of years.
My current diabolical plan is to get her to to baths at Baden
Baden and combine social nudity with a day of spa pampering.
I've floated the idea by her, mentioned that it was co-ed
full nude, and got a pretty positive response (something to the
effect of - if that's what it takes to get pampered, I'll try it
out with you). With any luck, this will open her up more to
trying a local club with me, or a nude beach on a future
vacation.
The key here OP, is that you have a wife that at least supports YOU
being nude (mine does as well, and I consider myself a pretty lucky
person that she's tolerant of that since I really started truly
discovering nudism after we married). That's a huge bonus in
the relationship. See if you can find a way to bribe her into
a clothing optional situation with spa pampering or whatnot.
If nothing else, and she's just not into it, as was said
above, it's her space, and you'll have to respect it.

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Natureboy has it right. Give her time.
I have walked around naked in the house since we were married 25 years ago. My wife is very OK with me naked, but she is not all that comfortable being naked all the time. The last few years, it's getting harder for me to keep my clothes on and I am usually naked outside at our house and in the pole barn. We live in the middle of 40 acres.I've told my wife for years that I wanted to visit a nude resort. This summer, she finally said, "If that's what you want to do, I will go with." Well, I found a campground a couple hours away and made reservations. I called her to make sure she was ready and she said "I'll do it for you." We went in August and they made us take the initial tour fully nude. She did it and we spent 3 days there.The folks at the campground were the friendliest campground people we have ever met. Everyone would stop and talk and introduce themselves. Now, my wife is all in. She says we can go any time. She also wants to try a nude cruise. She's still not completely comfortable at home nude, but going nude on vacation is great with her now.

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Dear All,We are an Indian couple in mid & early thirties. I have been a nudist since more than 10 years. Recently got married & just has a wonderful kid few days back. How I can persuade my wife in to nudism?? Though she was nude with me in the house for almost 2 days she left it afterwards. Suggest something that will persuade her in to nudism....!!!Thanks a lotSachin
Have you made any progress towards getting your wife into nudism yet? How are things going in this respect? Have any of the above suggestions been of any help?

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