My wife isn't as comfortable being nude as I am. I was nude all day today at my house and in my big garage. We went to the closest resort the last couple years. They encourage nudity, but don't make it a big deal if you're not. They do require you to do a tour the first time you come and require nudity for the tour. My wife was reluctant, but did it. I think it sends a message right from the start, it's a nude resort. But, after the tour, you can do what you want, except the pool area is mandatory nude. My wife is one who says it would be easier being nude if everyone is nude. She has a hard time being nude when some people have clothes or wraps on. She thinks it would be easier if everyone was the same, nude.
But, we are in Minnesota, so the nights can get cold, so they have to leave the option open for clothing when needed.
But, for me, I pack the camper nude, drive the 2 hours nude, and stay nude the whole time we are at the resort. When we leave, I drive home nude and unpack the camper nude.
My wife is one who says it would be easier being nude if everyone is nude. She has a hard time being nude when some people have clothes or wraps on. She thinks it would be easier if everyone was the same, nude.But, we are in Minnesota, so the nights can get cold.
The one time I found that everyone was nude without any sort of adornment was at an event for a non-landed club. The event took place at a health club and there were enough lockers for everyone. The organizer /president was naked at the door when people checked in. That set the tone and it was clear that everyone should be naked for the few hours that the health club was rented. It was very natural to be naked because everyone else was naked too. This was a while back when the Chicago Sun Club was active.
Just so long as I can be nude, the state of dress or UNdress of others doesn't matter to me.
I agree, Not everyone has the same comfort level be it temperature or shyness. However, in my opinion, in the hot tub or the pool it should be nude.
I, personally think that any nude venue should have rules in place that you must be nude. If you do not want to then you should not be there. My take is that people who do not get nude at a nudist venue at nothing more than voyeurs. It is the same thing with doctors, you go in to have a complete physical and you do not even have to remove your shirt. I have canceled my physicals because of this and the doctor ask why and I just told them that you can not do a real physical without being naked, Part of the physical is checking to see if molds and warts are changing or if you have contacted any skin or other diseases. If they don't do this then you have not had a physical, just a check up for 5 minutes work they get about $400. I did have one to tell me that due to advanced equipment they did not have to do that anymore, which is a bad joke on them
I, personally think that any nude venue should have rules in place that you must be nude. If you do not want to then you should not be there. My take is that people who do not get nude at a nudist venue at nothing more than voyeurs. It is the same thing with doctors, you go in to have a complete physical and you do not even have to remove your shirt. I have canceled my physicals because of this and the doctor ask why and I just told them that you can not do a real physical without being naked, Part of the physical is checking to see if molds and warts are changing or if you have contacted any skin or other diseases. If they don't do this then you have not had a physical, just a check up for 5 minutes work they get about $400. I did have one to tell me that due to advanced equipment they did not have to do that anymore, which is a bad joke on them
Well in your world there would be a lot fewer of us and thus fewer resorts, beaches, etc. in 1997 I asked my wife if we could go to a clothing optional resort on vacation. Her response was "fine, but I will not participate and I am not to be bothered about it". We arrived, I got rid of the clothes while she put on a swimsuit and went out to join the other vacationers, all nude. . We hit it off and we're having a great time and no one bothered her about the suit. On the second day I was playing volleyball in the pool and she was talking with people in the nearby hot tub. At one point she got up and went to the room. I figured she was using the restroom, instead she went in and took off the swimsuit and came back out nude! That was the last we saw of the swimsuit. She has told me that just being accepted, not bothered, and being able to see it for herself is what allowed her to make the decision. We have been to a good number of resorts sinc and live pretty close to Laguna Del Sol where sometimes, like last weekend, she tells me I should go by myself while she is busy or other times we go together.
20 years later...she suggested and wants to go to Laguna Del Sol this weekend to relax and have some fun...nude
Sunsport Gardens has a sign in the office stating that it's a "nude resort" implying clothing isn't optional. A lot of clothed people for a "nudist resort".
Actually, I don't mind being the minority nudist at their drum circles. Maybe it's the exhibitionist coming out of me!
I think it should be no clothing allowed in certain areas like the pool. My wife will lay out nude and go in the pool nude , but when she heads to the bathroom, room or for dinner she always at least wears a wrap
I think it should be no clothing allowed in certain areas like the pool. My wife will lay out nude and go in the pool nude , but when she heads to the bathroom, room or for dinner she always at least wears a wrap
That's the "format" most nudist resorts have these days. It's worked well for my wife who is not quite ready to just "walk around naked" everywhere at the resort. But she is comfortable with the idea that the pool area is "nude mandatory"; and has no problem getting naked to enter that area to swim, tan, and hot-tub. Everyone else is naked there, so that reduces the "intimidation factor."
She does understand though that there is a benefit to not covering up every time she leaves the pool area, or while just hanging out around the resort. She just wants to be able to "work up" to it. The "C/O except the pool area" resort "format" allows for that. As a matter of fact last year she gave it her first shot by momentarily tossing her wrap while we hung out by the lake. This year she has the idea of staying naked to walk between the pool area and the lake.
This kind of "gradual progress" would not be possible at a nude-mandatory resort. Yet I feel it's what a lot of women need.
Im reminded of a conversation we had with a couple on holiday once.
They were telling us about the naturist club they belonged to. They must have had the no singles policy as he said it was 50/50 split men and women.
He said, it was great because you could be naked all day and everywhere within the clubs boundarys. His wife then said. No, you can be naked everywhere I cant. She explained that while she preferred to be nude, all the women in the club all wore sarongs at all times. The only time I can be nude is in the pool, she said.
I asked why this was the case. She explained that it wasnt always like this. It started with one lady never going nude, which made others less confident and soon the club had turned into an only males naked club.
I understand that some people are less confident being nude everywhere all the time, but that can have detrimental effect on everyones freedom to be naturists.
Treat it like an addiction. I have tried to quit smoking on and off for around ten years, thinking I could just cut back never worked. Two years ago I decided I did not like where alcohol was taking me, and just quit buying it. I found that did not work with the cigarettes I needed the nicotine patches. Three months without a cigarette and just quit the nicotine treatment as well ;-) Do I still have cravings for them, HELL yes. But that passes and not having either substance around is mandatory for those times.
Need to start a CA (Clothing Anonymous) group to help those with a clothing addiction ;-)
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